I really enjoyed the film. I particularly loved how the fledgling relationship was treated. All the older relationships Murray/McDormand, McDormand/Willis, and Norton's lonely recording talks are treated with appropriate melancholy. They sober us with their realistic portrayals of drift and regret. Yet they serve an excellent supporting contrast by showing how precious the new love is.
The children's relationship is never treated like a self-serious Romeo and Juliet. Never are we pressured to believe that these two will remain together forever, that they are eternal soulmates, etc. We may later see these two become Murray/McDormand, but this fragile love is worth the entire community bonding together to preserve.
Moonrise Kingdom managed this fatalistic/optimistic viewpoint of love as well as
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.
With these characters' requiring such Herculean efforts to maintain their relationship, I also liked how the story gradually built in scope. What began with two characters meeting in a field leads up to scout boys charging over a hill as if they were armies in a Hollywood epic. And it ends in no less than
Balaban's role, unfortunately, could've been completely excised. I don't like the criticism "underused," but Balaban's geographical exposition seemed unnecessary and took me out of the film world when he made his appearances. He was even shoved into the plot at one point. The other real false note for me was
The manner in which it happens is like a joke, and the film doesn't seem to exist in a world where such things are possible (see: the lightning). It's a pretty wild shift in tone, and I see little to justify such a cheap appeal for emotion.
Other than that though, I think Anderson was on point for this piece. His style was well-integrated, and great performances by Hayward, Willis, and Norton drive the whole thing home. It's nice when the actors can bring nuance to such a structured world.