I only just saw it for the first time, and didn't know what to think of it for a while, but it ended up really working for me, almost as a parody of or commentary on most coming-of-age films. I know it's based on Gary Goetzman's childhood, but everything about it will feel like a completely alien version of growing up to 99.9% of people, yet presented as though it should resonate universally.
Like the moment where this 15-year-old kid gets arrested for murder(!) in the middle of trying to pull a waterbed scam. We've all been there, right?
And yet, with some critical foregrounded details, he offers a corrective to so many films of this ilk. No one besides PTA would have cast these two people as his leads. They don't look like actors in a movie. They look like the characters they play. The 10-year age gap makes a lot of people uncomfortable. It's not something a studio executive would push for. But it makes the film more real. Their chemistry feels like the push/pull of
Phantom Thread filtered through the whimsy of
Punch-Drunk Love. That sort of dynamic, along with mysterious ellipses and making memorable setpieces out of randomly arbitrary moments are my favorite parts of PTA's skillset, and I think this film plays to his strengths.
Also, there's so much running in this film. Running that feels in the moment like it's running for your life, that you know in your head isn't, but you pretend it is anyway. I remember doing that a lot when I was younger